Think about this: Worry is associated with warts. Those are not pretty things. If worry was a positive event it would be associated with something beautiful, like a flower.
I noticed recently that I was holding tension in my body related to certain upcoming unknown things (I was being a wart). “How is this going to work out?” I was asking myself. “How is that going to work out?” All of the things that I was wondering about were in the future. To me, they felt like loose threads that were just hanging in the air waiting for resolution. I was holding tension in my body because I didn’t know exactly how it would all resolve. Then something wonderful occurred to me: It wasn’t time for them to work out. Spending my time wondering, and especially holding tension in my body about them, was absolutely useless. Not only was it stressing me out, it was a complete waste of energy, because those events weren’t present yet, there was actually nothing I could do about it.
There are two kinds of future events: Ones that you can prepare for, and ones that you cannot. To differentiate between the two ask yourself, “Is there anything I can do about this right now to make this future event go more smoothly?” If there is, then do it. (If you need a new job for example, you can start looking, or brush up your resume. If you need a new place to live, you can start visiting available places.) And relax knowing that you are actually doing everything you can to ensure the best result.
If there isn’t, then move on. If there is nothing for you to actually do about it (if you are worrying about how someone else will react, or how something will feel to you in the future for example) then let it go. You won’t know until you get there, and thinking about it isn’t helping it become better. (If your stuck in these thoughts, replace it with the mantra, “Everything always works out even better than I imagine,” whenever you catch yourself thinking them.)
When I understood that it wasn’t time for those events to work out yet, in a flash I understood also that by the time those events arrived, the pieces that now felt like loose threads to me would be beautifully and perfectly woven, without any work from me. I really had no business even considering those things at the moment since they were to take place a couple of months down the road. And if I really reflect on it, pretty much everything in my life has resolved itself when the time was right. So do as I did, give yourself a break, let it go, and relax knowing that like everything else in your life, when the timing is right the moment will unfold.
Aimée Cartier is an author, intuitive and speaker. Her book entitled, Getting Answers Using Your Intuition to Discover Your Best Life is available on amazon among other places. She is the founder of Spreading Blessings Media and does intuitive (or psychic) readings by phone from her home in Washington. Subscribe to her mailing list here. Or follow her on Facebook.
